The loving children quite often have desire to make a lot of good for the mother, especially, if she for long years put herself on the second plan, worked hard and directed all efforts to family. Sometimes women of the senior generation just begin to lag behind modern life, and for transformation they need the help of close people. To make mother's life though it is a little better – in your forces.
Relaxation – the beginning of changes
If you had had desire to change the mother, so you can hardly call her by the happy, well-groomed, weakened and happy life. Perhaps, she has got used to be engaged constantly in something for the family benefit, and rest for it – unattainable luxury. Make so that mother could relax. Try to exempt her from part of household chores, suggest to go together to holiday, find the housekeeper. Your purpose is to show to the dearest person that without its constant control and participation the life will not fail, family members will not sit hungry and there will be nothing outstanding at all. It is especially important if mother differs in the increased uneasiness and loves that everything to trifles became according to her desires and orders. However, if at you it to turn out to give it rest, it will be essential step to changes.
Installation that already late and better not to begin a lot of things in general, is very strong for many women aged. To begin to look after meanwhile itself it is possible at any time. Certainly, significant changes will not manage to be reached, but nevertheless new clothes and cosmetic procedures are capable to change the woman: she will begin to look differently at herself, to admire the reflection, to enjoy external changes.
Act delicately and gradually as total changes will hardly be perceived adequately. Begin to make gifts in the form of quality cosmetics, interesting clothes, accessories. Quite often elderly women begin to go obstinate, motivating that it is not necessary for them in general and especially do not cost your expenditure. It is allowed to go even for easy deception. For example, tell mother that have allegedly won the certificate on passing of anti-aging procedures in beauty shop. By itself, you cannot use it, and do not want to lose too. Try to make so that mother after all has visited salon and has gained pleasure and visible effect: so it will be simpler to you to adjust her on wave of personal care.
If your mother all life ate incorrectly and was far from fitness, to acquaint her with healthy lifestyle will be the best gift of you. At advanced age it is already not so much about good figure how many about possibility of prevention and treatment of diseases. The optimal variant is to inspire mother by the example. If you eat, anyhow, and are not engaged even in usual physical education, your efforts will not yield result. Your eyes have to burn, and external changes - to be noticeable to all family. Convince mother gradually, inspire by the example. The main thing for her is to begin, without regard to fatigue and the settled habits. As soon as mother feels inflow of forces, ease and disposal of pains thanks to healthy lifestyle, will begin to be involved.
Communication as way to transformation
To change mother, serious internal work is required. Communicate with it on various subjects more often – from changes in modern life before your personal reflections. Mother should not feel torn off from the world, should not get stuck in the past and live on reminiscence about youth. Help it to rejoice to every moment, to make plans and to see the future ahead – irrespective of its age.