Already several weeks torment you terrible doubts and suspicions. You ceased to trust the beloved. It is not important what was the reason, the main thing, the trust left the relations. And without it your union any more not the union, and developing attack in the back of the enemy. Your man denies everything (quite perhaps he with you is honest) so, most likely, you never learn the original truth. What remains to you? To break off the relations (but it too!) or to believe the darling. The respect and trust – in it are also a love essence.
It is required to you
- All your love for this person, belief in his honesty, is a lot of patience and strong will.
1. The most difficult is to make the firm decision that you take the guy a word. Call to the aid all the will and determination. From this point you have to cease to doubt his words and to torment yourself in vain. Otherwise doubts will continue to corrode you that will lead to unnecessary showdowns. The love union is not only feelings, but also reason which has to operate these feelings.
2. Tell the man what misunderstanding in the past, and you completely trust it. It will cause in it sense of relief and sense of guilt (in case he after all told lies to you). But warn that if the situation repeats, any more you any more will never be able to trust it. Let for himself draws conclusions. Anyway it will already be more circumspectly and hundred times will think before taking an imprudent step. And if is not present – that your union all the same will crack. You do not awake every time to take it a word.
3. Nevermore you start a conversation about this incident. So you and your elect restore the sincere relations quicker. Bury this subject once and for all.